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Post by sarahconnor on Jun 11, 2007 8:51:02 GMT -5
I just logged in folks to check my personal messages and this was waiting for me from Ali, I tried to reply but I couldn't, she has unsubscribed from the group.
Admin you have my permission to check my personal messages to verify that I did actually receive this from Ali.
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My husband went crazy on me, and I don't know if I can help anymore.
He said a number of hurtful untrue things to me and has banned me from this support group. He also said that he will be monitering the phone and any calls from out of area (that means my fiber friends) will result in my immediate dismissal of the house.
He is fed up with me being sick, so in other words In order to have a roof over my head, I have to pretend not to be so sick.
He is SO tired of me being sick that he told me that he doesnt want to see my bald spots on my head, to either put a hat on or a scarf. He wants me to, and I quote "clean HIS house until it is immaculate, and if I get sick from moving around too much, not to let him see it. To go into another bathroom where he can't hear me throw up. which by the way he thinks I'm making myself do.
So, I'm sorry I won't be able to help anymore, please pass this on. I don't want to lose the roof over my head, cause right now it is the only thing I have left.
I wish to God he understood, but the fact remains he doesn't and I can't change that.
Good bye my friend, and I wish you well.
Ali
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Post by sarahconnor on Jun 11, 2007 19:26:55 GMT -5
It really is sad I agree. Things are like that for myself under this roof, I know what she is going through. I'm still trying to get used to being a mum, and my little boy is only 9 weeks old. I would love to run away.
Would anyone like to have us?!!!!!!!!
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Post by 0happyday on Jun 12, 2007 23:47:36 GMT -5
Ali I love you I have 2 things for you. I will post in seperate posts.
Friends
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, & lt; BR>to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.
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Post by 0happyday on Jun 13, 2007 0:04:50 GMT -5
Terrorism in ////////// County
Yes it can be a joke. It depends on how you look at it. The F.B.I.'s definition of terrorism is "a person who intentionally threatens one or more people with the purpose of causing fear." This is a subject that not many want to talk about, and very few people acknowledge. Yet it will affect each and everyone of us at some point in our lives. There are people in our community, whether children, women, men, parents, that suffer from terrorism every day. But, for some reason we ignore it. We have a choice, we can turn our heads, our backs, close our eyes, or look the other way. We can try to forget about it, pretend it's not happening, or simply lie to ourselves. Or, we can stand up and be accountable! Because the cold hard facts are, "ABUSE EXISTS", whether it's verbal, mental, emotional, sexual, spiritual, or physical. Again let me say, in case you have already forgotten or chose to ignore it, "ABUSE EXISTS". And everytime we choose not to acknowledge it, we are allowing it to continue and affect the people we love. We are saying, "OK, go ahead, abuse again, and let me show my children it's OK to abuse and to be abused, to allow others to be abused." For every time we choose to ignore it we send a message, ABUSE IS OK. Abuse is terrorism in its purest form. You have a choice no matter who you are, the /////////// County Sheriffs Dept., the church pastor, the garbage collector, the president of the bank, or a member of the ladies auxiliary. WE HAVE A GOD GIVEN RIGHT TO TEACH OUR CHILDREN, ABUSE IS NOT OK. 0happyday
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